I’ve had many comments from men about my figure, both good and bad, but admittedly take the majority with a pinch of salt. I’ve been alsorts of sizes and to be honest, I’ve never been phased by it. The only time that I ever tried to lose weight was when I was a size 26 (UK sizing) and I joined weight watchers for 3 months. The majority of the time, I’ve been “the fat friend” and it never bothered me. Why should it? I was comfortable with my body image – and still am.
However, someone who I thought gave a damn once, said something that I did take to heart, – this person being a woman. Shallow is a bit of an understatement and to be frank, I don’t think that she realises, or cares, that she upset me. She loved the fact that she was the thinner of the 2 of us – and to be frank I never cared, however her comments shocked me a while ago.
I’d gone from a size 22, to a size 16-18. It’s not unusual for me to change size, however this was partly medication related, not weight loss medication I hasten to add, but neuro-meds. She made a comment about my “tree trunk legs”. Now, given that my legs have always been toned until I became disabled, this was a sore point anyway. I mean, come on, I was a size 16 and did arerobics 4 times a week (step aerobics twice a week), wore 6″ heels often and had killer pins! Since becoming disabled, fair enough my legs do swell, but the muscle wastage over the years means that my legs are 1-2 dress sises than my waist and hips. Skinny jeans look like straight jeans on me, bootcut jeans look like kick-flare… I don’t have massive legs.
Someone else has referred to my “fat arse” several times. My said “fat arse” is boney and covered in bruises mearly from sitting on it.
However, today, I’m going to have my moment of bitchiness….
Look at what I bought yesterday, that fit perfectly, even my “fat arse” and “tree trunk legs”….
